Instead of spiraling through sleepless nights and second-guessing every choice, you’ll feel grounded knowing every detail is handled with care and expertise.
Whether it’s bottle or breast, sleep training or soothing, Cassandra gives you clarity without judgment so you can thrive, not just survive, in your new role.
By creating a calm, consistent, and supported environment, you’ll set the stage for better sleep, healthier routines, and stronger bonding.
Here’s how the stress tends to surface:
Endless lists of “essentials” that drain time and money
Nurseries set up with gear that isn’t safe or practical
Sleepless nights filled with doubt and decision fatigue
Finding Peace Amidst the Parenting Chaos
From friends, family, and the internet, everyone has an opinion. The noise makes it harder to know what’s safe, what’s essential, and what’s just marketing.
Impulse buys, wasted gear, and unsafe shortcuts don’t just drain money; they add chaos to your home and can put your baby’s safety at risk.
Instead of resting and bonding, parents burn energy second-guessing every choice. The days they can’t get back get overshadowed by stress, exhaustion, and regret.
Cassandra & Co. isn’t a nanny service or a one-off consultation. It’s a seamless, high-touch partnership that takes the weight of pregnancy and postpartum off your shoulders. From registry guidance and nursery setup to hospital-to-home planning and personalized newborn care, Cassandra brings two decades of expertise to simplify decisions, prevent costly mistakes, and create a calm environment for your family. With every detail handled, you can finally stop second-guessing and start enjoying this once-in-a-lifetime season.
A curated baby registry with only the essentials you’ll actually use, cutting through the noise and saving you from wasted purchases.
A safe, functional, and calming setup designed to support both your baby’s needs and your peace of mind.
A clear, step-by-step plan for pregnancy, hospital-to-home, and postpartum so you always know what’s next.
Practical guides and routines that keep the little details handled, from feeding to restocking essentials.
Answers to your questions, big or small, with clarity and compassion—without judgment or conflicting advice.
The assurance that your baby’s environment is safe, your home is prepared, and you’re ready to parent with calm and confidence.
I know how quickly joy can turn into overwhelm when you’re preparing for your first baby. One moment you’re excited about the nursery paint color, and the next you’re spiraling about bottles, breast pumps, or whether you’ll ever sleep again. My role isn’t to dictate the “right” way to parent, but to walk beside you, lift the weight of those details, and make sure you feel supported instead of overwhelmed. I grew up without the kind of love and stability every child deserves, and that’s what drives me to ensure no parent has to go through this season feeling alone or stuck in survival mode.
With nearly twenty years as a Certified Newborn Care Specialist and Certified Professional Nanny, I’ve supported hundreds of families through pregnancy, postpartum, and newborn transitions. I’ve evaluated thousands of products, overseen millions in nursery setups, and worked with everyone from local professionals to international families with private household teams. Wherever I’m serving, my mission is the same: strip away the noise, simplify decisions, and create systems that give parents space to rest, recover, and bond with their baby.
Embrace the Journey to a Joyful New Beginning
Schedule a quick call, text, or meet-and-greet. This first step is about building trust and knowing you have an experienced guide on your side.
Together, we’ll shape recommendations around your family’s unique needs—from registries and nursery setup to postpartum support—so you have a clear, practical roadmap.
With your plan in place, you can let go of second-guessing and focus on bonding. From day one, you’ll feel prepared, supported, and ready to show up as your best self for your baby.
This isn’t just about products or checklists; it’s about true transformation. With Cassandra & Co., you create a foundation that allows you to show up as your best self, bond deeply with your baby, and enjoy the fleeting moments you’ll remember for a lifetime. The result is more than survival. It’s peace, confidence, and a stronger start for your family.
You step into each day feeling prepared and capable, trusting yourself and your systems instead of second-guessing.
The nursery runs smoothly, essentials are always stocked, and the constant hum of anxiety fades into calm.
Instead of remembering chaos, you look back on this chapter as a season of presence, connection, and joy.
“We were lucky enough to work with Cassandra during my pregnancy and once our second son was born. We highly recommend Cassandra’s services. First and foremost, Cassandra is zealous about newborn safety, and understands that not all baby products are safe. Cassandra takes a practical approach to baby products – often suggesting a less expensive, highly functional alternative, with our specific needs in mind. Cassandra embraced our desire to limit plastics, and had suggestions to replace common plastic products with more health-forward options. Even before we were officially working together, Cassandra would text suggestions and reach out with product information. After our son was born, Cassandra’s care and intentional presence was a dream. Cassandra is responsible, responsive, knowledgeable, and easy to work with – even in the stressful time surrounding the birth of a baby. “
Jessie & Paul Cristo
“I met Cassandra very early postpartum, when I was really struggling with postpartum depression and just trying to find my footing as a new mom. From the moment she came into our home, she brought such a calm, grounding presence. She recognized how fragile I was in those moments of near hysteria. She was incredibly intuitive and seemed to know exactly what I needed — sometimes before I even did. She helped me get organized, guided me toward the right products, and created a sense of order that made everything feel a little more manageable. She taught me basic baby care, which took out a lot of guess work for me.
Because of her support, I was able to slow down, breathe, and truly bond with my baby instead of feeling like every day was a struggle to make it through. She made such a difference in my healing and my confidence as a mother. I’m endlessly grateful for her care and the peace she brought into that season of my life.”
Diamond Dampf
“I am so grateful for the amazing support from Cassandra. She went above and beyond recommending the most helpful, top tier baby products— from swaddles, to body care, to formula— all which made the first few months so much smoother. On top of that, she organized the nursery in the most practical way, folding the burp clothes, onesies, etc. to a more functional way of retrieving the items. Every item had its perfect place in the nursery that made it seamless to the eye. I would highly recommend her for any of her services as it has made the transition to being a mother less stressful and highly enjoyable.”
Alliyah and Gary Merriweather
“We are the parents of a 10-month-old girl who utilized the Nursery Management services of Cassanda Asleson both during pregnancy and after our baby was born. She was an absolute lifesaver. Cassandra has years of experience with infant and childcare – and the experience we had with her was beyond our wildest expectations. She spent hours and hours with us while we were pregnant and nervous. Her reassurances and knowledge were invaluable in our preparation for bringing our daughter into the world.
Before our daughter was born, she listened to our budget and our needs and helped us decide on ‘must have’ baby and mama items, and helped us avoid products that looked flashy, but most parents don’t end up needing. Those online sessions gave us the confidence to prepare for the arrival of our daughter better than we ever could have.
Overall, working with Cassandra has been one of the best decisions we have made in parenthood. Thanks to her, we were able to confidently navigate this massive transition in our lives without (as much) worry as we would have had without her. I would strongly recommend her to anyone looking for comfort during their pregnancy and parenthood journey.”
Leick Family
“I am the Director of Operations for an ultra high net worth family based in Los Angeles with properties around the world. Cassandra supported the family on a short-term contract from the end of March to the end
of May during a transitional period where we needed extra support. We are so grateful that she shared her time and talents with our team!
During her time with the family, Cassandra helped the household in many different capacities to ensure that operational best practices were put in place to set the team and the family up for success. We found Cassandra to be thorough, reliable, dedicated, passionate about her work, and a committed team player who executed her responsibilities with professionalism. She is a swift learner who was able to adapt quickly in a fast paced environment where assignments were constantly evolving. Cassandra is a natural leader, thoughtful self-starter, and masterful organizer who loves to creatively problem solve to increase efficiency. She is focused, operationally minded, and leads with empathy.
Cassandra was an absolute joy to work with. We are deeply appreciative of her hard work and genuine kindness.“
UHNW Family
“Cassie supported our family for five years, providing amazing newborn care and just all-around support for our household. From the start, she brought such a calm and confident energy into our home. She has this way of knowing what needs to be done without anyone saying a word, and she always does it with so much care and thoughtfulness.
She’s one of the most reliable and responsible people I’ve ever met. When Cassie’s around, you just know things are taken care of. She doesn’t wait to be told what to do—she just sees what needs attention and handles it, always going above and beyond. We could trust her completely, and that kind of peace of mind is priceless, especially with a newborn.
Cassie is warm, steady, and has a heart of gold. She’s not only great with babies but with the whole family, bringing ease and a sense of calm wherever she goes. She truly became part of our lives, and anyone lucky enough to have her in their home will feel the same.”
Erik & Kate Berglund
The Hidden Costs of Solitude in Parenthood
Parenthood doesn’t have to begin in chaos, but without trusted guidance, many families end up there. The first weeks turn into a blur of sleepless nights, panic purchases, and second-guessing every decision. Instead of resting and bonding, parents burn precious energy managing logistics and wondering if they’re “doing it right.”
Wasting thousands on baby gear you don’t need or can’t use
Unsafe shortcuts that put your baby—and your peace of mind—at risk
Stress and exhaustion spilling into your marriage, work, and health
Memories of regret instead of presence in your baby’s first days
Cassandra & Co. isn’t a transactional service. As a Certified Newborn Care Specialist and pregnancy consultant, we offer full-spectrum preparation and postpartum support—covering registries, nursery setup, safe sleep, feeding, and on-call guidance. It’s about building systems and confidence, not just filling hours of childcare.
Cassandra is based in Tulsa but serves families locally, regionally, and beyond. Many clients start virtually for registry consulting and nursery planning, with in-person visits added as needed.
Yes. We are willing to travel for the right client fit. On-site support can be scheduled for prenatal prep, nursery setup, hospital-to-home transition, and early postpartum care. Travel fees and minimums apply based on distance and duration, and everything is outlined clearly upfront.
Newborn planning isn’t something you can easily compare to a standard service. Parents consistently say it was worth many times what they paid, even if they were hesitant at first. The peace of mind, savings on unnecessary purchases, and smoother transition home more than pay for themselves.
Most parents underestimate how overwhelming the decisions and details will become. That’s why we often start small—with a quick call, text, or free registry review—and deliver immediate value. From there, we’ll shape the level of support that fits your family best.
You absolutely could—but why spend your baby’s first weeks exhausted, anxious, and second-guessing when you can have clarity, safety, and calm from the start? With expert guidance, you can skip the stress and enjoy the moments that matter most.